For Ladies With Natural Black/African-American "Type" Hair!!!!!?

So I've been natural for almost a year now, and all my straight ends are gone, but my only issue is that I don't know what products to really trust and use on my hair. Right now I use this shampoo and conditioner that I got from CVS called Organix and it contains no sulfate, I use olive oil ecostyler gel, Cantu Leave in Conditioner, organics replenishing pak conditioner, Softee shea butter and coconut oil, and Doo Gro Mega thick oil. I know I need more natural oils but can anyone tell me what to really use, so I can at least develop a stable pattern to nurture my hair? And also any other suggestions on what to do to help my hair grow? Like I wash my hair with conditioner only one week and the next I use shampoo and conditioner then I deep condition, but I feel really lost. Help?!